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*Take efforts to read till the end. Its worth it.** **
To All Married Couples and Singles Who Intend To Get Married * *
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know whatI was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away thechopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping . I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer ; she had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I didn't love herany more. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated thatshe could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. **She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spentten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had saidfor I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind ofrelease. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. **The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something atthe table . I did'nt have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. **When I woke up , she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
**In the morning she presented her divorce conditions : she didn't wantany thing from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a lifeas possible. Her reasons were simple :
our son had his exams in a months time and she did'nt want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me torecall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies , she has to face the divorce , she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us , daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sittingroom, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. Inodded, feeling some what upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on mychest... I could smell the fragrance of her dress . I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realised she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Ourmarriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry heras the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresse shave grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried so much pain and bitterness in herheart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essentialpart of his life.
My wife gesture to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom,through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softlyand naturally. I held her body tightly ; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held herin my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacke dintimacy.
Its worth it: lackedintimacy.
I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have afever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won'tdivorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realise that since I carried her into my home on our wedding dayI am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife.The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote: I'll carry you out every morning until deaths do us apart. The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank,blah...blah...blah. These create an environment conducive for happinessbut cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse'sfriend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.
Do have a real happy marriage! If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you, but if you do, you just might save a marriage.*